#GrowUp On Forgiveness and why feeling good and right again is great…but not enough

if you have been hurt, and you have undertaken the work of healing, there will come a time in your process when you begin to feel strong again. after you've sorted through who did what to whom, accepted responsibility for your part, made some kind of peace with what went down if not how it …

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NEWVLOG Valemtime’s Special- wah valentine’s shoulda REALLY name

well it was my intention to load this on Matey Valentine's (aka di first satdeh after...if you were celebrating belated valentine's for no 'good' reason....you might be the matey) but FLOW said NO so it went up likkel after we can talk bout weh Valemtime's day wudda name if we did  honest bout wah gwaan …

Carla Grows Up (CGU): Criticism widout suggestion a just beatin up yu gum.

It's easy to criticise. Not just that it comes easily to us but in reality, when you didn't do something yourself, it's easier for you to see places where things could have been done differently than it is for the person who did it. Quite possibly the person who did it tapped out their creativity …

Carla Grows Up: Dreaming widout planning is like cooking wid no food. y’a go hungry

Carla Grows Up: New Blog Segment where I invite you to come with me as I try to get on my hustle, find my path and generally grow into the human I am meant to be. And, share wid me how yu stay and how yu feel. MT Massive a more dan ki ki ki …

NEW VLOG: Duppy Bat Ep2: Ray J, Kim K, and telling lie pon people p*m p*m

no man smaddy need fi answer Ray-J and all a him combolo dem near and far weh a carry lasco enermax belly fi people p*m p*m di only ting weh last fi eva is salvation so nuh feel seh caw you hit it first yu imprint like Twilight and it belong to u fi eva …

on monogamy, polygamy and the threat of the new anti-oppressive norm

  http://fabianromero.tumblr.com/post/43364003643/thinking-aloud-why-i-stopped-calling-myself-poly i was just talking to somebody about this yesterday about the way we think about monogamy, and the fact that we only think of it as oppressive because of how it came to be a part of how we think about relationships, and because of how it has functioned for most/many people. monogamy …